HOW TO LOVE YOUSELF

Why to love yourself is most difficult thing?

Do you ever have a thought on this?

To love yourself is a most easy thing people, made this difficult because of there thoughts although it's easy to love yourself the way are you.

Some people thought that they're ugly, they're not beautiful enough, they doesn't have good complexion so This is all just talk just remember everyone is beautiful in their own way. So love yourself as you actually are because god made us we can't change thing by yourself.

Now you understand love yourself is the most important things we always expected love from our closed ones but never thought of how to love yourself so here are some ways by which you're able to love yourself in every way.

                             HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF 

 1. Don't compare yourself to others:- 

     Doing comparison is the first thing on which we have more belief. So people comparing themselves with other peoples about looks, skills etc, so firstly stop comparing yourself with others accept the truth that your enough as you are and if not then start working on yourself and love the way you are.

 2. Forgive yourself:- 

        If you did any mistake forgive yourself because if you continuously blaming yourself only so it would not be good for you. Just think that it's done already we can't change this in anyway so just forgive yourself for everything.

 3. Say "NO" when you need to:- 

          If you want to say No but you're not able to say because you might be thinking what people will say if you denied for anything. So firstly if you want to say No then say it on a face people will talk only 2 days about this but from 3rd day they'll forgot everything so take your stand. And also people thought that if I say no to them then I'm not a good person I always say no to everyone, don't be fake infront of everyone just be yourself whenever these situation comes.

         

 4. Appreciate your life:- 

       Be grateful for everything whatever you have in your life, and always appreciate your life because you never know today you have everything that ever you wanted to, and no one sees the tomorrow so be grateful for everything.

 5. Surround yourself with people who treats you with kindness and respect:- 

           Keep yourself with chosen peoples who appreciates, motivate, inspires you by just being in your life and avoid those people who demotivated you and doesn't respect you because the negative people also fill your mind with negativity. So be positive with positive people.

 6. Make time for the things you love the post:- 

       If you love drawing or dancing or anything so take some time for that also because when you start doing these work which you love and feel good while doing.

 7. Let go of the past:- 

        If you blame yourself for some past reason like "Why you did this?", "What compulsion did you have that you had to do all this?", So it's like past had gone, past never comes back and obviously you can't change anything by thinking all these stuffs and making false assumptions for yourself. And just remember one thing that "Everything happens for a reasonable". Let it be now it's time to focus on yourself and make your present and future more better.

 8. Have a healthy sleep routine:- 

         As we know 8hours of sleep is necessary for our health, so be healthy and take proper sleep. When you take proper sleep then automatically you will fresh and your day goes well and also you're filled with positive thoughts.

 9. Practice gratitude and appreciate little things in life:- 

             To give appreciation is difficult thing to do but to take appreciation is good and easy thing for us, appreciate every little things in your life whatever you have, whatever going to happen you never now so appreciate yourself and appreciate those you have always with and they makes you feel good and also show them gratitude because you are nothing without them.

 10. Learn to stop people pleasing:- 

              Avoid pleasing people, they used you when they needed you but when you needed them they're not available on that time. So just say once if they agree to do then ok if not then leave that and remember if they denied you just don't pleased them because when you started pleasing for anything  somewhere People take advantage of this too.

 "LOVE YOURSELF IN EVERY POSSIBLE WAY DON'T CARE ABOUT WHAT SOCIETY THINKS JUST LOVE YOURSELF FORGET EVERYTHING"

                                 HOW TO LOVE YOUSELF